OK I have been following this and trying to deceide whether or no to post. But some of the remarks made may the man have ruffeled my feathers a bit. Road if you think it is hard now to have a g/f (girlfriend) and go to flight school, do you think it will be easier later in life? My answer is probably not. Any relationship takes work, if you two are committed to each other then you can make it work. You may need to set aside the first 15-30 min when you get home to be with her before you start studying. You have to make some compromises and so does she. If you give her 15-30 min then she could leave you alone for the next three hours or however long you need. Also I am sure you have to eat at some point so maybe she could ahve dinner ready for you at an appointed time and you take a study break then to eat. You need to manage your time better, if she is worth the effort.
That being said... My mother was/is an Army Wife. I am an Army Brat. My boyfriend wants to be a Naval Pilot and I support him with all I have. No it was not easy for my parents and I am sure it will not be easy for us but we love and care for each other enought to make it work. A woman can be the greatest thing in your life. My mom raised my sister and myself while my Dad was on Active Duty in Korea. I waited for the phone call to send him to the first Gulf War and I wait everyday for him to be called back to duty (he is a Retired LTC.). There are women out there who love and support their husbands everyday by doing the most mundane things to make their husbands' lives easier (i.e. laundry, perparing meals, taking care of the kids, running errands, fixing the toilet, paying bills, fixing a broken hot water heater ect.). These women do all of this because they love and support their husbands.
That being said... My mother was/is an Army Wife. I am an Army Brat. My boyfriend wants to be a Naval Pilot and I support him with all I have. No it was not easy for my parents and I am sure it will not be easy for us but we love and care for each other enought to make it work. A woman can be the greatest thing in your life. My mom raised my sister and myself while my Dad was on Active Duty in Korea. I waited for the phone call to send him to the first Gulf War and I wait everyday for him to be called back to duty (he is a Retired LTC.). There are women out there who love and support their husbands everyday by doing the most mundane things to make their husbands' lives easier (i.e. laundry, perparing meals, taking care of the kids, running errands, fixing the toilet, paying bills, fixing a broken hot water heater ect.). These women do all of this because they love and support their husbands.