I wouldn't feel comfortable offering advice on the enlisted v officer part (nor the PPL issue) as I'm still new to all of this myself and have no experience in either of those areas, but I will offer my opinion on the recruiter part. My first recruiter experience was not nearly as good as the second one and I ended up swapping.
If the recruiting station isn't that far from your residence, it's worth a drive there to try and get some face time. My recruiter was good about answering/returning calls, but after I met with him and we talked for an hour or so, the amount of attention I got was on a different level. That first time I went in we didn't really talk about that much more than we had over the phone, but I think that meeting gave him a better feel for who I was as a person as well as giving him a face to put with the voice on the telephone. Bottom line (as I tend to ramble): IMHO, a recruiter will work harder to help a person they know (even if they have only just met them) than they would for a voice over the phone or papers on their desk.
Hope you get this sorted out soon, but I believe the next boards aren't until April, so at least you have some time *half-hearted smile*. Good Luck!!