OCS is not rocket surgery. It is mainly how you can stand up to the PT and how well you can lead your peers. But, in order to lead your peers, they have to like you. You really can't be careless joe one day and when it comes time to take your billet, put on your staff sgt face and be a staff sgt. The rest of the platoon still sees you as careless joe. If they don't have a reason to follow you, they won't. People just can't be Lcpl nobody one day and when their billet kicks in they are the plt. commander. People are who they are and they just trade around the insignias.
I can see I am not making myself clear. Let me see if I can break it down further. You have certain personality types at OCS, or characters if you will. Not all of the characters will be present but some most definatly will be. They are as follows, with or without combinations of each one.
First, and most importantly, you have to Sh*t-bird. Every unit must have one. Look around you, you should be able to spot him. If you can't, then congratulations! its you! We don't really know how he will be picked. It might be that he can't do some of the PT, or falls asleep alot, or maybe he is just "weird." But he will be there. And he will provide you with lots of entertainment and maybe some "remedial" training by the SgtInstrs. He will also shoulder a lot of the blame for what happens. When in doubt, blame it on the Sh*t-bird. He probably won't make it through.
One cannot escape the position of Sh*t-bird until he is replaced by someone else. Example Joe is the Sh*t-bird, but Bob has a royal screw-up, which ends in the entire platoon getting remedial training. This gets people looking. If Bob screws a couple of more times, then he is the new Sh*t-bird. Until Bob gets cut, then Joe is the Sh*t-bird again.
PT Stud. He will be the guy that that can run the 3-mile in 15mins. Most of the ones I have met are pretty nice guys. They might have some trouble at first with leadership, but, lets face it, Marines respect physical prowess. This will get people to follow him. Guy most of the time won't be a Sh*t-bird.
Funny Guy. Most units have a guy that is witty or can come up with things that can make you laugh when you are in a pretty sucky situation. Most people will follow this guy just cuz they want him around. He can make them laugh when life is pretty sucky and making life suck less is and essential tool for OCS. This guy can definatly be the Sh*t-bird though. If he is, he can make it through, though maybe by the skin of his teeth.
Smart Man. He will be the lawyer or the Ivy-league dude. He'll help you with the academics and provide you with good conversation. He comes in two types. The kind that find that they don't like what they see in the Marine Corps, and the kind that sees the culture and is ready to be "assimilated." They will then look at the things we do, rationalize it, and expect others to do it verbatim. Hey, smart man, do yourself a favor and don't try to rationalize anything we do.
He can be a combination of the people you see here. Including Sh*t-bird, if this happens he won't last long. He can also be (as was my plts case) the PT stud.
Priors. Lots of them. Do what they say (for the most part) especially the SNCOs.
Big Honkin Dude. Yea, you will probably have one. He will be the size of a dump truck, and can wade through the ford with only gettin his ankles wet. Stay away from him when it comes to buddy PT. Stay close to him when it comes to Log PT ;-) ( really, don't be that guy, do your share with the log.)
Mr. Grey. He will hide in the back and watch everyone. Very creepy. It really depends on how he reacts when someone finally does talk to him. If is acts really weird, then he could be on the Sh*t-bird stand-by list. If acts pretty cool, then he will be liked and become an average-joe. (you can only hide in the back so long, not like boot camp)
Average joe. The general Milieu. We will form our little buddy groups or liberty groups. Most of our buds will be in our squad. This will get people to follow us. People will make it through pretty well after the 5th week.
Sure I am forgetting some. But, for the most part, make friends, PT hard, do your share, don't be the Sh*t-bird and you will be ok. OCS is kinda like running from a bear. You don't have to outrun the bear, just the Sh*t-bird list. Won't work at TBS though. They have 6 months and they will find you if you are not a good leader.