Okay, no one's gonna slam you for being curious, but your comments about "gaming the system" kind of came across as an "I'm too good to mix with the AF"/"Semper I" attitude.  It's cool to have preferences; I wanted VT-6 and got VT-3, but I still made it through and got my first choice.  And the whole "Air Force guys are all homos" statement is overrated beyond simple interservice harrassment.  I'm a (Navy) VT-3 alum, my onwing was an A-10 pilot, and there were guys of every service who were cool as hell and others who were dorks.  That goes for students and instructors.  Had some of everything when I was there, AF, CG, Navy, Marine and even a couple Army flight docs.  But all the squadrons go from the same syllabus, so it's not like the differences are huge.
Food for thought: in my advanced class we have 2 former VT-3 guys, a VT-2 guy, a VT-6 guy, another from VT-27 and one who went through Moody.  Our differences are due to our own abilities, not where we went through Primary.