So here it is...I recently have fallen for a Navy boy who is on his way to OCS in Rhode Island on Feb 16th. I spent the last 8 years as an Army Reservist (yes I know, weekend warriors hooah) so I understand what it entails to make a relationship work living in the military scene. My questions are: How long is he going to be gone for if he is first going to OCS and then on his way to flight school? Does he have an option on where his final duty station is? Do we have to be married for me to be with him at his duty stations? Any other advice anyone has on my possible dilemma I would be most grateful!