All the luxury car brands have adopted a business model of coupling always-on car connectivity with fee based feature access (using your phone as a key for example) along with serving up personalized in-car advertising to the vehicle infotainment system. BMW, Lexus, Audi, etc. Wall street loves loves loves recurring revenue models. The car companies are shameless about it.
There is no privacy anymore and attempts to "do research, turn off / opt out" are useless. Repeat, useless. You might as well just enjoy the targeted ads/messages as a feature.
I have YouTube TV and just watching normal television channels I am getting targeted ads all of the sudden in my living room. It's weird but that's the way it is. Resistance is futile.
You have no control over what you believe is "privacy". It's a feature, not a bug.