You need to get a couple things straight before you even take one step towards the recruiter's office. Your career is not EVER "guaranteed," regardless of whether or not you have your wings. You still have to get through the RAG (while being graded, still), and impress your fleet CO enough to get the FITREPS you need to be competitive (while earning qualifications and being graded. Still).
Look up a little thing called a Field Naval Aviator Evaluation Board (FNAEB). If you don't attrite out of flight school, you can still "attrite" after being winged. For the rest of your career, if you screw up badly enough, you can be FNAEBed. The standard keeps rising. Trust me. What constitutes "scraping by" in flight school will not hack it after you have wings on your chest. Your instructors may respect the hell out of your work ethic and you as a person, but the standard is the standard, and no one is going to give a DAMN that you "know you're going to make it."
You definitely need to adjust your attitude regarding NFOs. Life is not Top Gun. You are not Maverick. NFOs do much, much more than just sit back there going "we're goin' ballistic, Mav!" If you are lucky enough to be selected for Naval Aviation, be thankful for the privilege. Single OR double anchor. A classmate of mine recently carrier qualified in the Prowler on his last chance to do so. It's traditional to buy a bottle of booze for the NFO instructor who you're crewed up with for CQ. This guy had enough respect and gratitude for his boat ECMO's talents that he bought him a bottle of Johnnie Walker Blue. No one is forced to be an NFO. If you really can't handle that, go whine and take your ego somewhere else. We don't want you. You should be asking to be put whereever, not coming on Internet forums and saying you don't want to be forced to be an NFO. The Navy will put you where it will. You wil be fortunate indeed if all of your ORDERS are congruent with what you want.
First it's "NO HELOS," now it's "oh, helos might be OK but NO NFO." Me, me, me. Semper I. I respect that you have goals. I respect that you want to bust your ass. There's nothing wrong with that. But if you show up to OCS or API talking like you are posting here, you are going to be THAT GUY. Your instructors are going to paint a big red bullseye on your back and declare it open season. You had best eat some humble pie before proceeding further. I truly wish the best for you in your endeavors and hope you have a fine career. But you need to take a big step back and think about how you are coming across. Confidence is key, believe me. But given where you are, you are coming across as very arrogant to those who have been there, done that.