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So from what you are saying women shouldn't be in the work force but rather at home taking care of their kids. Are you telling me that if I want to have kids I should just give up and have my husband support me? Then if that's the case, if I want a career I should commit genetic suicide and never have kids? Oh yeah, does this mean that father's aren't as committed to their children as mother's are?
So from what you are saying women shouldn't be in the work force but rather at home taking care of their kids. Are you telling me that if I want to have kids I should just give up and have my husband support me? Then if that's the case, if I want a career I should commit genetic suicide and never have kids? Oh yeah, does this mean that father's aren't as committed to their children as mother's are?
Talk about a hypocrite. Dr. Laura is horrible, and her kid is a fvcking idiot (not to mention extremely irresponsible, immature and a trouble maker). How do I know says you? I went to school with him. Her parenting skills leave much to be desired. Your point was valid, your example was not. I fully agree with your post though. Just didn't want to miss a Dr. Laura bashing opportunity.![]()
Mothers are wired to be better and more capale caregivers than men.
Okay, that's just a little bit of bullshit. While there's been evidence to indicate that kids do better with at least one parent readily available full-time, nothing has shown that that parent has to be the mother. I know plenty of fathers who have been better primary caregivers than a lot of mothers I've known, and I think you're doing a real disservice to men by perpetuating this "No care about babies! Breadwinner! Manly man! Hapless oaf akin to Ray from 'Everybody Loves Raymond'!" stereotype.Yes, that is exactly correct that fathers are not as committed. Mothers are wired to be better and more capale caregivers than men.
I think what he was trying to get at was simply that there are a number of bonds build between the mother and the child while breastfeeding. There are a number of studies that suggest this bond continues through the teenage years. Men can't breastfeed and therefore can't build those bonds. Can men be incredible parents, and the primary caregiver? Yes, but he still can't breastfeed and therefore won't have that bond.Okay, that's just a little bit of bullshit. While there's been evidence to indicate that kids do better with at least one parent readily available full-time, nothing has shown that that parent has to be the mother. I know plenty of fathers who have been better primary caregivers than a lot of mothers I've known, and I think you're doing a real disservice to men by perpetuating this "No care about babies! Breadwinner! Manly man! Hapless oaf akin to Ray from 'Everybody Loves Raymond'!" stereotype.
And women aren't "wired to be better and more capable caregivers." Women are physically equipped to gestate and nourish babies and socially conditioned to be caregivers.
Is that so wrong, if they are willing and able to serve?
Got it. Disco.I think what he was trying to get at was simply that there are a number of bonds build between the mother and the child while breastfeeding. There are a number of studies that suggest this bond continues through the teenage years. Men can't breastfeed and therefore can't build those bonds. Can men be incredible parents, and the primary caregiver? Yes, but he still can't breastfeed and therefore won't have that bond.
So why don't we just say if you can figure out how to time your career so you can both care for your kid while meeting your military obligations, then you should have every right to do it?
Of course not - I was merely pointing out a direction the Navy is taking that some are unaware of.
Then if that's the case, if I want a career I should commit genetic suicide and never have kids?