Though the film has some issues and doesn't necessarily give you the whole picture of Navy life, I'd suggest you check out the PBS series Carrier. It's on their website and does a decent job showing you a day in the life of people onboard.
http://www.hulu.com/carrier
I’d always thought buddy stores just held the apparatus for transferring the fuel. However, the drop tanks on aircraft of my era usually held 2000 pounds each though. Not sure about the modern aircraft.

