I always thought I had the best of all worlds in aviation. I went in as a civ pilot NFO. Made me great at the copiloting duties and very respectful of my pilot's talent and challenges. Spent time in a small commuter, not even a regional, flying turbo props with civ kids building time. Even though we may have had similar civ log books, the difference between us in general airmanship, aeronautical adaptability, systems knowledge and maturity was vast. I know today's helo guys taking a detour though the regionals, like @HokiePilot, have seen the same thing. And then, I made it to The Show. Had pilots I flew with in the Navy both senior and junior to me. The guys senior to me ended up with the same career (mil and civ) except maybe, a bit more money, IF they were not giving it away to an ex spouse or lost it in a failed business/investments, got burned in the CA housing bubble, etc. You can script your life, but you can't get through a production without re-writes. Ask anyone in Hollywood.