When used in this term, I truly meant "men" as a collective noun. I am sorry to have snubbed those fine ladies. I started out to quote a truly fine officer I once worked for as a young sailor, but the exact words were not on the tip of my toungue and the quote was much longer than the following: the quote (had been bright enough to use it) was: ".......remember, as an officer you must put honor and duty first, trust your men 100% of the time second and they will never let you down and hope for a boat load of good luck when the other things fail to bring about the desired result. Some day your luck will be there when you need it, if you work hard to do those first two."
The entire quote ended, "you are an officer now, and it is no longer necessary for superior officers to be nice to you, especially when expressing the expectation that you will complete your tasks on time. Good luck son, you will need it."
That officer was RADM Grace Hooper, but that was a time when she could say "men" and mean members of the sea service, without regard to race, religion, sex or national origin. LOL.
No slight intended to anyone, just praise for the young men and women who allowed me to achieve a fine career and fill my heart with good memories I can share with the people who missed the experience, and maybe oneday with my grand kids. RADM Hooper was one of those memories, but I will stick to quoting John Paul Jones....."Keep your powder dry and practice with the guns daily".