Have you been on a ship? THAT is Groundhog Day! I like my job, but even "Cruel Intentions" gets old the 20th time on ship's TV.
NFOwife said:I don't think it's a fair comparison to argue who's life is harder, and it seems to be pointless IMO.
snow85 said:who is fortunate enough to stay home and not have to work
snow85 said:you know when you marry the person, what the life entails
psg1016 said:Being former military and a former military wife (now a single mom with a deployed ex spouse) both sides of this argument are hard. No, alot of women have never depended on a man to do things for us, and I think that military wives should be taught how to do those things so they can take care of their families while the spouses are deployed. I knew military wives who were strong as steel, the hard core center of the family, and no matter where their spouses were, a routine field exercise or deployed overseas, they kept everything running smoothly, stay at home mom or not. I also knew wives who were lazy, worthless, whiney women who didn't do anything but complain. Being out in the field with their husbands, I would hear (being a woman, they would talk to me) about bounced checks, unpaid bills, no food in the house, that kind of thing. Then, you would hear the ones talk about how fantastic their spouses were and how they couldn't do anything with out them. Each family is different, and it is harder to be a military wife, again, i'm a single mom and I agree with that, but the responsibilities are the same at the core. You have to take care of your family, no matter what your situation. There are wives out there who give all military wives a bad name, and it isn't right. Your spouses work hard, fight for and defend our country so you can stay at home/work, raise your children the way you wish and go out and do the things you want, when you want, without a male escort. That needs to be appreciated and respected.
Those of us who support our military support their families too, but if you don't pull your end of the duty, you don't deserve respect. Respect has to be earned. Those of you who are good and faithful to your men, who take care of your homes and families and keep everything running smooth, I applaud you and pray for you. Those of you who are out partying (and yes, there are lots of them that do, you can't deny it) you should be ashamed of yourselves....
shortncurly said:Cate, this is why I love you: "you silly, silly twit!"