Keep in mind that he gets liberty after the third week there, so that means the 4th weeknd because he reported on a wednesday and week 1 donesnt start untill monday. I'm also married and I went through OCS this summer and it was tough on my wife, she made it up there my second weekend of liberty meaning the end of week 4 for us but it was our 5th weekend there. And trust me is as hard on him as it is for you, he might not be able to think about it much during the day but he will at night. This is my own advised and it was what worked form me, write him letters daily because for me there was nothing better after having a hard day to get a leter from my wife and my son. hope this helps you in some way