I have never seen anyone ask for marital advice here. Most people, myself included, simply ask when they can get leave and everyone answers a diffferent question. By the time they're talking about the date on this forum, their mind is set, for better or worse. I think asking about leave dates is as legitimate as any other question that gets asked on here, so help them out.
Brett, It isn't for everyone, and not everyone is rushing it. I knew my wife for years and gave it plenty of thought. We could have waited longer, but I don't think it would have mattered, and I would have been a lot less happy during that time. If it ends up being a mistake, it will have been one worth making. Your advice has merit, because people should be cautious, but there are also great rewards.
Make your decision on the girl, not the timing. You could rush in or wait too long and end up marrying someone you don't need to accomodate your career or life goals, OR you could let your soul mate slip by because the timing is inconvenient.
Highdimension, you're really stretching it, and I don't think even you believe that this guy is in one of those situations. Stop playing know it all college boy.