R1, thanks for insulting my intelligence. You get to do that once. I'll respect my elder this time, but you personally insult my intelligence, or any other member of this board again, and you're gonna spend time in the penalty box.
As far as the rest of your points, I didn't ask for a rose garden. I don't complain about living in a box, deploying to do my job, working late to get a bird into and thru the Middle East three days ago, working the hours we regularly work, missing my first four anniversaries, etc etc. I ask only to be given the tools necessary to do my job and the authority to get my small piece in the big puzzle accomplished. If the navy wanted a bunch of automatons, they shoulda started building those fucking crashing robots a generation or two earlier.
I bust my ass to keep the amount of shit I flush down the pipe to the people below me to a minimum. I trust my guys to drive safely, not drive drunk, not rape people...if someone fucks up and I'm asked whether they were trained, Ill roger up that i didn't insult the intelligence and character of the 99.9 to tell one retard not to be a retard. My expectations are well known...work hard, play hard. I've built a reputation as a worker, a get shit done-r, a go to dude. You don't know me, or how I carry myself at work. If I bitch to blow off steam here, it's because I consider this to be akin to closing the wardroom door and having a good old fashioned JOPA bitch sesh. It's how 90% of the on scene tactics and mission accomplishment gets done in my community, and if that offends you, then I apologize.
If it comes down to doing some bullshit ATFP/sapr/dadt/tip training some higher up has invented to give himself a fit rep bullet, or taking a bird out to practice shooting harpoons, well, power points don't come with a sell by date and it'll be there later. I wish I could believe the people above me give me the same consideration, but this is an organization where CYA is growing more important than the mission. That's what most of us squeaky wheels here chafe under, and the answer to suck it the fuck up doesn't really encourage anyone to work hard, offer solutions, shake the trees etc.