Yeah, well there's more to the story than that. A previous Wing King made his place off limits, and the reputation has stuck. When you enter Gary's place, he expects you to remove your hat. He doesn't care what color your skin is,... just remove your hat. But if you want to start a ruckus and refuse, then expect him to tell you to get the hell out.
Now, throw in a "chip on the shoulder" syndrome from some student pilot,... add in a Wing King who has more in common with the student than he does with Gary,... and you've got a place the military doesn't want you to frequent.