Wishing the OP the best of luck in his life and decisions, on the other point. I am 62. I have worked for myself, a local government agency, a state government agency, and turned down a job offer with a federal agency, in positions from sworn law enforcement to attorney, hold FAA licenses and USCG Master licenses, and I lost my DD-214 around 1986 and have never had anybody ask for a copy. I do have a little experience doing background checks in several of these agencies, and if an employer cared, it was only about a BCD, none cared or even understood honorable, less than honorable, general , ADSEP, or any other acronym. Just my experience.
I do, however, look at my discharge on my wall every morning and smile when I get out of bed.