Hhmmmm....
From what I've read previously on this site it seems that the Navy guys have a lot of problems with their recruiters. Maybe it comes from understaffing or that the Navy is cutting back, right?, so they just don't need to be as persistent.
My OSO is fabulous. There have been a couple of times where he forgot a personal detail about me but how can you remember every detail about every person you talk to? You can't. I wasn't insulted. At the same time he calls me just to check in, makes sure everything is going OK, or to answer any new questions, etc. I haven't received any bad gouge or misrepresentations of the expected or required obligations. Everything he has told me has coincided with information I got elsewhere, from here, google searches, or asking other friends in the Marine Corps. I even asked him a question that he wasn't quite sure of the answer. He told me that flat out, didn't lie, and checked with three different sources for the answer to my question. I got the answer in 2 days. He's been quite motivating, always encouraging and happy. He runs with me anytime I want to go for a run. All I have to do is call him and his answer is usually "so how's 1730 today for you?" (he knows I work until 1700 everyday). I feel comfortable enough to confide personal concerns or ideas in him. The Major left, because he was promoted to Major, and it was immensely important to him that I meet the new Captain before he left. I signed my contract and was sworn in that day. I haven't felt brushed aside, forgotten, or like an annoyance to anyone in the office.
I feel bad that others have had such a nonsatisfying experience. But think of it this way, if you're motivated enough to "recruit yourself" then you definately want this as your career. Just keep up the research and good question asking here and you'll be fine.
Good luck!