E5B, my physics teacher had a packet at the front of the class that explained that kids who don't do well in high school usually ahve trouble in college. It had different data tables with high school GPA in one column and % with college diplomas in the other, followed by an explanation of the data. If I remember right, only like 50% of people who start either a 4 or 2 year college finish... I'm probably wrong, but it was some really shocking number.
You didn't try hard in high school but you did well in college? You're a lot better than I am then. I don't think most kids could do that, though. I haven't started college yet, but I have a bunch of friends who are there and after talking to them I'm terrified. From what I've gathered you have to go from having everything spoon-fed to you in high school to 'you either sink or swim' in college.
I hate making excuses, but the reason I hit the roof is because when I was a soph I talked to a ROTC cadet for a couple hours. He said that I shouldn't work so hard or I'd burn myself out. I took his advice to heart, and I'm convinced my grades that semester cost me an appointment to the AFA. So now I couldn't imagine telling a high school kid to relax, I mean, to me (until my jr year), working hard meant staying awake in class and doing an hour of homework while watching the simpsons. Relaxing meant doing less than that, so now I don't want anyone to sabotage themselves the way I did, so that's why I got all pissy and kept telling that kid to get good grades and play sports.