Dude...yeah...so geobachelor on a carrier for two years was the right way to go, even if it was not fun.
Just wrapped up two years as a Shooter on the Truman.
Positives:
Had a full eight month combat deployment where the planes I launched dropped 1598 pieces of ordnance on some bad dudes in the 5th Fleet AOR.
It was some sweet job satisfaction watching the planes I launched loaded out with some big bombs come back empty. Those dudes did some great work and all of that time away from home was justified. Can't imagine doing that time at sea and not killing anyone.
I had the opportunity to be the V-0 and V-2 Divo, as well as Topcat (concurrent with V-2) so I actually learned how to lead. 250 Sailors, Chiefs and Officers, along with scheduling training for the 8 new Shooters we got during the yards and through FDC and CQ kept me very busy. I had some frustrating days, especially when I was picking Sailors up from jail, going to mast, or dealing with the mental/emotional weakness inherent to this generation. Those days were far outweighed by the good ones, days where my guys would get a Cat up after three nights of constant work, or when they would bust ass through bad weather and a high optempo to do work underway.
Negatives:
Living away from my family. We decided to live apart because almost an entire year of my two year orders was spent underway. Couldn't justify moving my family to Norfolk just to hang out for 11 months in the yards.
The shittiness was ameliorated by having my horse up at the MWR barn at NAS Oceana. Got to ride, train, and show with some elite athletes in the heart of horse country. Unfortunately he died during my last underway, leaving a huge hole in my life (and wallet...fucker cost $1650 to cremate...I only paid $500 for him!!!)
If I had it to do again, I'd probably still do it the same way.
I do have to thank Masterbates (even though he is no longer a participant in this site) as he, and his wife, gave me a place to live. Having never met them in person, they generously offered me a room and Mrs. Bates usually had food for me...and that woman can cook!!!
I picked up O-4 and DH, and now get to learn another new plane. Off to Jax for nine months to be a Cat 1 in the P-8...
This time the family is only five hours west, and I'm doing the PUMA lifestyle on base in my 28' camper. Living where you work, staggering distance from the bar and the golf course can only end well.
So swing by, first beer is on me, hope you like Killuan's.
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