Well, obviously my post was taken as a personal attack, or insult, but it wasn't. This post is not meant to demean anyone either, it's just MY opinion on the subject. Yes, I KNOW my diploma will be worth something in 10 years (maybe yours won't), but that's because it's more than just learning math and physics...it's about having better analytical, critical thinking and problem solving skills than my peers. Also, some of us are more ambitious than 'underwater basket-weaving' and just sitting on our BA or BS, so as I use my BS to get into grad school and get an MBA and a Masters in a science related field I doubt I'll forget what I learned.
As far as character goes, if you really stopped developing character in gradeschool, then I'm sorry for you. I do things every day that build character. If you're productive and work towards goals I don't think you ever stop. And for social skills, that's what kinder garten and gradeschool were for, working in groups and interacting with others. But yes, you should be able to be social in college, both through extra-curriculars and everyday life. I do agree with jboomer that all-nighters and stress from worrying isn't the way to go, so if that's what you're doing then you probably did pick the wrong major. I, personally, just like difficult course material. I'm a self-proclaimed dork because I do like to know how things work and learn, but if you knew me you'd be able to tell that it in no way interferes with my social life =) Well, sorry if I offended jboomer, or anyone else in my last couple of posts. It wasn't intentional. I, like you, am just trying to help out where I can and let people see both sides. Take care everyone.
JR