Hey goplay,
Don't worry, NFO aren't second class citizens in NAVAIR. In fact, pilots and NFOs don't necessarily rate any higher than the SWOs or Sub guys. In the end it is all about how well you do the job assigned and your general officer qualities. Within a squadron that flies aircraft with NFO crews the job of CO and XO rotate between pilot and NFO. Hard to see how an NFO can be something less than a pilot when he can command. Fact is, with the exception of LSO and aircraft commander I can't think of a single job in the navy that is not open to an NFO. NFOs qualify as Mission Commanders, they serve as squadron COs, instructors, admiral's aids, Air Boss, Strike Ops Off, ships navigator, Battle Group Commander etc. NFOs even go to Test Pilot School. At TPS the program is virtually the same except the NFOs becoome flight test engineers (NFOs in the test crew). After over 23 years in Naval Aviation I have not seen any lack of respect for NFOs. The pilots are best at what they do. They got me back aboard the ship on dark nights so I could catch the movie. I did all I could to help him. Putting a weapon on a target was my job. The pilot did all he could to help me, but sucess or failure was my responsiblity. You are a crew. There is some good natured joking between pilot and NFO on occassion, but that is all it is. Hard to think less of some that "doesn't have the stick" but still tells you how to find your target, planned the mission, defends your aircraft from missile attack, drinks more beer than you, has a prettier girl friend, went to a better college and, by the way, is your squadron CO.