Update:
BLUF: Lack of clear communication kept me from MEPS for almost a full year on a simple easy fix.
The issue was the people at MEPS who look at the paperwork were not accurately/clearly explaining the additional paperwork they needed from me to my recruiter. Everything was fine with me, but essentially, I was seen a few days too early for my post-eye surgery follow up for MEPS to accept my surgery paperwork. I had to redo all my post-op exams four years after the surgery (which of course all came back fine because my eyes have been perfect since surgery). This was 2 extra eye appointments, the 90 day post op AND the 30+ day after 90 day post op papers I was missing. Went to a local doc who did a vision test and some measurements and all was good to go (literally 30 minutes between two appointments).
I got a MEPS date two months ago, and just got word I am medically cleared to apply to next board.
My recruiter is still awesome and checks in with me often. They were not brushing me off, but was fighting for me and trying to figure out the proper paperwork too.
Excited to have closed this MEPS chapter and move on to hopefully join the world's greatest Navy.