Being the statistically small number of people who've had a chance to sample both ...go jets.
Now, I don't define my person by my MWS/MDS, but life is so much easier for you if you're a pointy nose guy. If you're competent, smart, and have a good work ethic you will do well in the TACAIR community. There's just so many, many, many more doors open to you when your MDS starts with "F" or "F/A".
That's my only resentment. I actually put one choice down ages ago during selection, props. I got helos. All these years later I'm nearing more fixed wing, multi-engine, turbine and high-performance jet time than I have helo time. But I still think of myself as a helo guy.
I know where you're coming from though, I wanted AH-64s but the Army didn't have a commissioned officer aviation program and I didn't want to go warrant. So here I am.
I constantly tell my wife that I would fly helos again in a heartbeat if I could get airline salaries for EMS/PETRO/Etc. It's that much fun. Flying helos is a blast. I can only speak to flying "heavy/fat-boy" jets and that wasn't so much a blast. It was great being able to get from point A to B at .65 IMN and see the world. But the only fun to be had when flying is when you're tanking off another heavy and flying "form" on them for 100,000 pounds of gas (twice a sortie). And don't think flying with "other" people is all great either.
I've been on crews where everyone just fit and the dynamics were great. Both in helo and heavies. And I've been on crews where no one could agree that the sky was blue and everything that wasn't outlined in NATOPS was up to a "technedure" discussion or prolonged debrief post sortie. Those were the CRM nightmares when I kept thinking of what my best friend in Vipers tells me, "When the canopy goes down, you're the mayor". That's golden too.
I also wouldn't call 6.5 hours over Baby Whale Back looking through a SNIPER pod, conducting NTISR, doing SEAD, lasing or programming PGMs "boring holes" in the skies either.
Good luck.