Nah,
not stupid, ghey or dumb...etc., I have fond memories of Barin. Only there for about six weeks (CQ & A/A gunnery), but it was more relaxed (for NAVCADs) away from the VT "front office" at Whiting, sort of like a Sqdn Det. Had a small AV. Cadet Club (ACRAC) there where some local Honeys hung out. We would give them our FCLP time periods the prior evening & 5 or 6 of them would magically appear, standing amongst the pines on the downwind leg the next morning. We flew the pattern at 300'+- w/ canopy open. As each of us approached the 180, the Ladies would wave to us & we'd wave back. It was sort of a Romeo & Juliet ballet (only we were on the "balcony" !). They remind me now, of the "NA Husband Hunters" in the movie
An Officer & A Gentleman. In the debrief, our LSO LT Burris would look at us, kinda smile, shake his head and roll his eyes

....GOOD TIMES!
BzB