Masterbates,
Believe me, I in no way meant to offend you so much. I can assure you that I will not be wearing my husband's rank--ever! However, when HE selects something, it affects me. I have to move with him, find a new job, make new friends, and set up house there. I recognize that he is the one that selects, earns his wings, and deploys. However, don't be so jaded to think that we don't in some way work alongside our husbands. I certainly didn't personally attack you with my question, so you must have some issues since you felt the need to attack me on a thread that you had no business reading or commenting on since you were no help whatsoever.
I will keep in mind that there are guys out there who are highly offended when I use the term, we, but until they somehow come up with a way that my husband's career path doesn't affect me, I'll continue to use the term. "We" are moving to Kingsville. "We" will have to make new friends. "We" are going to have to find housing. I'm sorry that I "rubbed you the wrong way" but you aren't a ray of sunshine either. In fact, you aren't very nice at all. Feel free to ignore my questions on these forums from now on.