You will always view your peers differently, and things get very cloudy when you start looking horizontally. JOPA has been trying to tell us this for eons, but then they get old and forget

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I'm talking about a trend that has been taking shape from the mid- to late-80s to the present rather than during the span of a single career.
Our journey toward becoming a force of gutless wimps and nerds is almost complete. Combat success is only a byproduct of the corporate social glue that holds the show together these days. .....The other portion of those who stay are fearful cowards who have no additional redeeming qualities, no other skills, or are scared to death of having to make it in the civilian world without any guarantees or less money. They are those who cling to the Navy for dear life for a sense of safety and camaraderie not seen elsewhere. Of course everyone thinks they're doing it for the first reason, and even the guys you might think are awesome might be making the decision to stay out of fear. I'm not saying anything new here.......Retiring chiefs and officers alike are often shocked at that attitude after having consumed so much kool-aid over the years convincing them otherwise.
You: "I commanded the fighting apes of VFA-umpty squat and cruised twice to support Operation Do Whatever."
Interviewer: "siddown." *facepalm*