N3M rarely picks up the phone, even for recruiters, and it doesn't matter what a person tells them, they only go by what is in the medical documents, if something goes wrong down the road that is the only thing another person will be able to review to see if the call was proper or not.
I had a conversation with the N3M doc years ago, I had a candidate for a hard to fill designator, there were some medical issues I mentioned this candidate was a hard to fill designator, the N3M doc said the person either meets the requirements or not.
Yeah completely makes sense, I wasn't going to call to lobby one way for another, just to try to feel out what I would need to demonstrate what I need to get a waiver. But I won't start bugging the docs and just wait to hear what the initial N3M hack is.