Man, the ship CSC or CS1 must have hated y'all. Probably because it was usually his boys manning crash-n-smash and the fueling team (at least on a small boy).
How drenched were you with sauce afterwards?
A lot of times I think it's SUPPOs who are mad we aren't paying for the meal. But, we still have to pay for the meal back on our own ship and 99% of the time I am doing said small boy a service - I wish they wouldn't get so uptight about it.
As far as the peas and the spaghetti, both were plates that I either gave the aircrew the plate back and asked them to throw it out in the trash bag or they could keep it. You can't walk back onto the carrier looking like a schmuck with tomato sauce all over you!