Crowbar said:Side note: Does the Navy believe in the One Bar Club?
"One-Bar"??? Do you mean "All-Hands'" Clubs ??? Ensigns have "One Bar" ...

I don't know or care what the kinder, gentler, PC Navy believes in --- I don't support the concept nor the reality of the All-Hands' Clubs. There was (still is) a reason for separate clubs where one could socialize with your peer group. The "All-Hands'" Club destroys that opportunity and were born in the post-Tailhook '91 officer bashing days of the Clinton DOD. My experience was that most O's and E's would agree to separate clubs ..... today's attitudes are so twisted that all bets are off, however.
There are All Hands events where you can socialize and "bond" with the men --- up and down the chain --- and an "All-Hands Club" where one can go to relax and let your hair down does not fit the bill ...... I'm not trying to be an elitist so don't even get started on that road -- most E's I know would prefer to have their own club as well. If the "men" want to rub elbows with the O's, there are venues more appropriate than the PC "All-Hands" feel-good approach. When I want to let my "guard" down and relax --- I don't want to do it with my subordinates. Period.
Whidbey still has an O'Club, Pearl Harbor does not -- it used to be good. Ft. DeRussy (a.k.a. Hale Koa) now has no O'Club and it's a shame. Did anyone here ever patronize the "Banyan Tree Bar" @ the old DeRussy BOQ ??? Kaneohe does have an O' Club --- and most I know appreciate the fact. Guam (Navy) does not. Hickam still has an O'Club, but it is a pale shadow of what it was during the glory days of the '60's and 70's .......
Glad to see it worked out for you with your Dad, Fezz. Lesson learned: Don't believe everything you hear --- check it out for yourself ...... if you want it done right.