Do you want to fly fighters, or not?
This thread's existence highlights everything that's wrong with risk assessment in our society.
My uncle was a real estate broker, and he died of brain cancer. True story. You could get cancer from radon gas in your basement, breathing secondhand smoke at a party, or (at least according to the state of CA) buying virtually any retail product. Conversely, you could be a pilot and live well into your 90s. Chuck Yeager flew in two wars, did copious amounts of high altitude test flying, and just turned 97 a couple of months ago.
Not flying doesn't guarantee you a healthier life. I'd focus on what YOU WANT out of life, rather than what people tell you is safe, or that you SHOULD WANT based on the mess deck rumor of the week. The media's focused on trying to get you to click on a story. Pay attention to people who have been there and done that. They'll give you a sense of whether or not it's for you.