"Let's just agree that abortion should never have become a political issue...."
---sorry to disappoint, but i don't agree. it IS a political issue. if it potentially violates someone's rights (baby or woman), how exactly is it not a political issue. you're saying women should have the right to choose and it never should have gone beyond that....solid argument. but i digress.........cate and i are not arguing (this time) whether abortion is right or wrong, we're arguing about the ramifications of those beliefs, whatever they may be.
"I think the abortion issue comes down to the difference between "wrong" and "illegal". There are plenty of things out there that you shouldn't do, but that doesn't mean that they should be made illegal - after all, isn't the government best that governs least? Kerry takes the position that a surprising number of Catholics take - that being that abortion isn't a good thing and should be kept to an absolute minimum, but that it's not ours to tell a woman that she can't have one, especially when it's medically necessary. Yes, we'll counsel her and give her all of the alternatives that we can provide, but in the end, it is her decision. I can't imagine that I'd even have an abortion myself, but I wouldn't tell another woman that she absolutely can't, because I can't be in her skin and understand what she's going through."
---legit argument, but first off, throw out the medically necessary cases, because the church doesn't oppose that necessarily (and let's be real, that constitutes less than .01%, somewhere equivalent to cases of pregnancy out of rape). the argument you're making is ignoring the severity of an issue. when taking things in the context of human life, the ramifications go way beyond withholding tax dollars or something. in this case, wrong and illegal are very strongly connected (equivalent in fact). the problem is that under the one set of beliefs (and that includes the catholic church) abortion is murder, nothing short of it. from that viewpoint, to say that it's "not a good thing" and should be kept to an "absolute minimum" isn't even close to enough...it's absolutely morally reprehensable. when you say it's her decision, you completely ignore that, which is only one side of the debate (it's like ignoring the other side exists). secondly, regardless of whether john kerry or a good number of catholics hold that belief, it's flat out against the teaching of the church. when you say that people have disagreements with the church and that's ok, you are lumping all those things in together. no way....i have my problems with some teachings...let's say i think women should be allowed to be priests. well, there is certainly the potential for gray area there....abortion is in a completely different ballpark within the church. there is not gray area...never will be. saying that john kerry is trying to "reconcile" his views with the catholic church is the problem....there isn't anything to reconcile. like i said, it's one of the few things within the church that is non-negotiable at it's core.
" As for the faith thing - faith and religion are two very different things. Religion is an institution, a big group of people agreeing to worship in the same way, and most people have some small - or not so small - disagreements with their religions. Faith has to do with one's personal relationship with [insert deity here]; Kerry's relationship with the Catholic church has nothing to do with that."
---true to a point. but the fact is (and i can only speak from the perspective of one church), the church is called the "faith COMMUNITY", meaning that while each individual has a relationship with God, the are under one community....and that doesn't mean everyone believes whatever and it's fine (that's called moral relativism). part of being part of the community means you accept certain things, otherwise you are not a part. you have the freedom to choose what to believe, but that doesn't give you a free ride into the community. what kerry is doing would be identically equivalent to one of the officers on this forum going IN UNIFORM to an anti-american rally...plain and simple. that's my point.