This is actually very very sad for me. The fact that we/us warriors are bickering amongst ourselves as to the motives of our CinC and questioning whether he backs us up or not.
Bingo. This is, in my opinion, a much more insidious problem than any issue our current President or the previous one could dream up. If we, as members of the military, are in disagreement about what our Commander in Chief is doing and his reasons for doing it, then there are much bigger problems to deal with than we as citizens simply not liking him (or the previous him either). It shows a lack of trust in our leaders and those who are informing their decisions. That bothers me a lot more than Obama having his picture taken in Dover. Unfortunately, there's not much to be done to fix it, at least nothing I can think of.
I'm not saying that we should blindly follow, mind you. Blind followership is the antithesis of progress, because it causes everyone to move in one direction or another without any understanding of WHY they're moving in that direction. Instead of slamming our leaders, whether or not we are justified in doing so, maybe we should try to look at it from a balanced (dare I say bipartisan?
) standpoint, since I think military members should be politically neutral anyways. I say that because the Constitution is not a Democratic or Republican creation; so we should not be only in support of those parts which are left- or right-leaning. I don't know about you, but I'm in favor of supporting and defending the whole darn thing!
Also, whoever it was earlier who said that everything a President does is a political move is exactly right. It goes back to the dual role of the President as head of government and head of his political party. You have to do both at the same time, so every decision you make is therefore colored by the fact that you're making it with your political party in mind. I'm pretty sure the last President to not be political was a guy named George Washington, and he (among others from his time) said that political parties will be detrimental to our nation. I'm not sure I can look at the current party spread and disagree.