You're getting a ton of good advice from aviators and other officers who've been in your shoes and even worse. That's life for you right there, better to end it now than down the road when you're married or even worse married with kids.
Move on from it and learn from the mistakes. Be a better person from it. If you need some time off, tell your CoC. I've done it before without any issues. Your command would rather have you at 100% after some time off than partially ready and no rest.
Focus on the eyes on the prize, flight school, the platform you so desire and of course WINGS. Assuming you're 22-23 years old, you've got a whole life ahead of you especially the next few. Women will always be around, these opportunities not so much.