let women fly? I wasn't even aware we let them vote!
j/k
Here's a Navy male's view...
I think no matter which any branch of the service you join there is going to be a different view/standard for women. My squadron has some mighty fine female aviators, both NFO and Pilot. I'm more than happy to fly with any of them. Our best NFO is a woman (who, it’s been reported, has Jedi powers).
That said, there are some women who TOTALLY bring the rest down in the eyes of their male peers. There are those who use flirting or "feminine wiles" to get their way - but they are no different from the guys who kiss ass in their own way. The problem is, when a guy does it, he's a kiss ass, when a woman does it, there are those who will say, "that's why there shouldn't be women in the military."
This is an old attitude and it is changing. However, the military is still very much male orientated. I don't want to dissuade you from joining, quite on the contrary, we need more women in the service, to show that they can get the job done just as well as a male. But no matter what anyone says, there is a double standard - but only by women joining the military and performing at the same standard set for males can that double standard evanesce.
I hope you join the Marines and become a Naval Aviator. The Marines are a fine bunch of men and women, if you have the drive, the determination to become a Marine, i applaud you - i took the easy way out and joined the navy :icon_tong
Good luck!