Hmm I went to Florida the OSO there is Capt R an artillery officer who was very conscientous and professional. I think I'd be happier with people who took time to talk to me rather than treat me as a quota. I tried talking to the AF, with 4 years service, superb AFOQT, honors engineering degree, flight time, and they tried to shove me into a technical officer slot. Capt R asked me what I wanted then worked hard to make sure I got it.
Now my two cents about USMC vs Navy and AF is that for the latter when you get selected to go, the process is so rigorous they have a pretty good shot of getting you winged. I think AF attrition was something like 7% overall(OTS->squadron) Navy slightly higher but not much.
Now with us, we know some happy lads are going to fall by the way side, with 50% lost between OCS and TBS and then between 10-30% after that. So they generally over recruit and in truth if all the guys offered air contracts made it all the way through, there'd be some very embarrassed staff officers over at Manpower in HQMC. Also we do accept the fact that many people want to fly Marine Corps(esp jets), but very few are willing to pay the high price(in sweat and pain) to get there.
Good luck to you in whatever you decide to do.