Mother, father, wife, girlfriend, or whatever. Relax. Be happy. It is your winging, not theirs.
Keep calm and carry on.
Whoever does it, just be thankful you don’t end up getting this smiley, happy guy as I did (I have no idea who he was.) I was a geographical orphan at my winging. Worse, my old college sweetheart had just dumped me (seriously).
So the Wing brought in this 'friendly' and 'happy' unknown dude to pin them on:
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It's kind of a sad story, but I can't help but laugh at the picture. Just the expression on both of your faces is priceless.