Options I cannot do:
2) Shotgun: I just do not feel comfortable with that big of a weapon. I know it may be good for home defense but it's just not for me.....not yet.
Maybe you just don't care about the advice you seem to be getting, but personally I think you have a propensity to be dangerous with a firearm.
A pistol, even a .22LR is FAR more dangerous than any long gun. If you can't be comfortable around a shotgun, you have no business around a pistol.
Before you go into any gun shop you need to go to a hunters safety or some other firearms safety class and get some training. Ive done the hard work for you:
http://www.nrahq.org/education/training/basictraining.asp
Also dont get into the mind set that having a gun is going to prevent all bad things from happening. As I said before a gun does you no good if you aren't around to use it, and firearms are one of the most highly sought after possessions for a criminal to relieve you of.
I'm not trying to deter you from becoming an gun owner, but you need to do it for the right reasons, and you need to do it in the right mind set. Going and getting a gun out of fear is dangerous for you, your family, and your neighbors.
Remember if you pull the trigger you are responsible for the outcome, and bullets do have the ability to travel through the walls of your house. Visit:
http://www.theboxotruth.com/ to get an idea of what I mean.
Also don't get into a gun fight with buffalo hunters... there ain't no such thing as cover.