Warriors,
Got some things I am trying to plan for but basically just want to run them by other folks who have experience with families and active duty. I'm prior Marine Corps but have never been married or had kids while active duty. I'm going to get into the weeds a bit here so sorry about that but there's a lot of important nuance when dealing with a pregnant wife. Wife and I are trying to be very proactive about this and are aware that there's going to be a lot of hoops and hurdles coming up. We're just trying to identify as many as we can before I go.
Background: Got a PROREC Y and a verbal for OCS on 07 Jan for SNA. Got 1 kid that's 1.5 years old, wife's pregnant, due a week or two before OCS graduates. Living in rural spot that's 3 hrs away from doc. No, I can't change it. Own a house that we'll rent when we leave. Got some family that's available to help with the birth. I've been the one handling bills so while we share our money, the bills come out of my account while we spend cash from the other one. My income goes to bills account, wife's income goes to cash account. I have no power of attorney to wife.
Plan so far for general stuff
Plan so far for baby business
I'm planning on bringing wife's passport for DEERS enrollment. When does TRICARE kick in for my family?
Does my plan have any red flags to anybody but especially active duty dads?
Any other general advice for going active duty with a family?
Thanks everyone. I'm extremely excited to join the ranks again.
Got some things I am trying to plan for but basically just want to run them by other folks who have experience with families and active duty. I'm prior Marine Corps but have never been married or had kids while active duty. I'm going to get into the weeds a bit here so sorry about that but there's a lot of important nuance when dealing with a pregnant wife. Wife and I are trying to be very proactive about this and are aware that there's going to be a lot of hoops and hurdles coming up. We're just trying to identify as many as we can before I go.
Background: Got a PROREC Y and a verbal for OCS on 07 Jan for SNA. Got 1 kid that's 1.5 years old, wife's pregnant, due a week or two before OCS graduates. Living in rural spot that's 3 hrs away from doc. No, I can't change it. Own a house that we'll rent when we leave. Got some family that's available to help with the birth. I've been the one handling bills so while we share our money, the bills come out of my account while we spend cash from the other one. My income goes to bills account, wife's income goes to cash account. I have no power of attorney to wife.
Plan so far for general stuff
- Provide access to all e-mail account pertinent to billing or other account like Amazon in case of data breach of something
- Send both incomes to one bank account
- Hire property manager, gardener, and bug dude to keep the house put together
- Teach wife how to change a tire, reset a breaker, and start the water heater
Plan so far for baby business
- Wife is on her own with the boy until about March, pretty much solo in town having only 1 friend that's always busy
- Wife heads to doctors locale about 1 month before the big day. Lives with and is supported by her sister and retired parents
- Wife has the baby and lives with parents until I come around on my 10-day leave and bring her home (this is not confirmed, I don't know how after-OCS works, recruiter said 10-day leave plus possibility of more time due to P-Cola being backed up
- Get house ready to rent before leaving left-coast for IFS
- PCS to P-Cola with family (also unconfirmed, I've heard that the possibility exists to do this)
I'm planning on bringing wife's passport for DEERS enrollment. When does TRICARE kick in for my family?
Does my plan have any red flags to anybody but especially active duty dads?
Any other general advice for going active duty with a family?
Thanks everyone. I'm extremely excited to join the ranks again.