First off, man, he is luck to have you. My wife ironed a hole through my first uniform back when I was an E1, and I haven't let her touch a uniform since! Then again, probably just goes to show you that she is smarter than I am, but lets not go there!
Ok, I am assuming a lot here, but back in the day, we were in Nimitz Hall for NSI, and those damn Boosters weren't around while we did our knife and fork thingy. As mentioned, you have the laundry room, but it is difficult at times to score a machine. Solution! Be sneaky, and infiltrate one of the other decks thats empty, above and below, and use the machines there.