MR BLONDE:
Currently, you are required to live in base housing (if available) UNLESS you are:
a) a Marine, coastie, or AF dud
b) Married
c) the owner of a dwarf bunny rabbit (no joke, they aren't an approved animal for housing), or certain BREEDS of dog (regardless of size)
You will be required to route a BAH request chit, if you are any of the above it will MOST LIKELY be approved, ESP if you are married.
Go get a place out in town with your wifey. It won't be a problem.