If you're married, you'll have orders to Whiting and your family can come with you if you want. I know people who let their family stay home until they finished out the school year, and others that had them stay all together and Geo-Bach.
To the married dudes, this goes against popular routes, but I'd say live near NAS Pensacola while in A-Pool/API and then move up to Milton for Primary if you can swing it. 90% of the bitching from married dudes I hear revolves around the drive they make daily from up North, either Milton or even by UWF.
@ Cenix, you'll likely wait a bit in A-Pool, do IFS, wait some more, do API, and hopefully go the the TRAWING. That's how it's supposed to work. Some guys finished API and were held here to wait for Primary. That backlog is almost done, so be flexible is my best advice. I've had so many plans get crushed by the Navy in just 6 months due to changing stuff.