I apologize if this topic has been covered, but I couldn't find much information about this type of situation. I am a non-prior going through OCS starting August 10. My fiance is pregnant with our first child, and assuming everything goes well, it will be born around December/January. I was wondering if anyone had any suggestions about raising a young child while having to deal with the pressures of flight school. I know the program will be very rigorous and I will need time to study and focus. My fiance is willing to take care of the baby herself until I am at a point where they can move in with me, but not being present much in the beginning will be very frustrating. I'm mostly wondering if it is a bad idea to have them with me during API and Primary.