So I am living in New York right now and my wife is living in Va Beach.  She was originally going to move up here with me back in November but I found out I got selected while I was in transfer.  Yes I know they werent supposed to do that but they did and wouldnt help me change my orders.  Anyway, I got my orders and have been living in NY by myself since then.  My wife has been living at a girlfriends house for free which was nice of her.  I plan on moving down into a place in Va Beach for myself and my wife before I go to NSI in Feb.  However the BAH where I am at currently is about $400 less than the BAH in Norfolk.  Since my dependent is living there and all my House Hold Goods will be there can I collect Norfolk BAH while at NSI or am I going to have to collect the NY BAH?  I want to know because I am trying to make a budget for while I'm gone and dont want to sign a lease for something that I may be tight on.  Any advise would help.  Thanks!