Hi all, this is my first post. I've done some reading here. I've asked my recruiter and used the search function. Sorry if I'm asking redundant questions.
I'm prior Marine Corps going for SNA. From what I understand, my board is October 3rd. My recruiter seems to think I've got a pretty solid chance of selection. Personally, I'm confident. Of course, I don't know what's going to happen but the risk of failing to plan is much greater than the risk of over planning so here I am and ladies and gents have I got myself in a tight spot.
I'm on an age waiver and turn 29 March 7th. I bought a house this last June and I've got a wife, a 1 year old, and another one on the way. The way I worked out the math and assumed class start dates around the holidays, I've got three possible ship dates I could make with a maximum of 8 weeks moving time and a minimum of 2 weeks. Really fun stuff.
The problems I have:
The solutions I'd like to see:
Solutions I need help with:
I'm prior Marine Corps going for SNA. From what I understand, my board is October 3rd. My recruiter seems to think I've got a pretty solid chance of selection. Personally, I'm confident. Of course, I don't know what's going to happen but the risk of failing to plan is much greater than the risk of over planning so here I am and ladies and gents have I got myself in a tight spot.
I'm on an age waiver and turn 29 March 7th. I bought a house this last June and I've got a wife, a 1 year old, and another one on the way. The way I worked out the math and assumed class start dates around the holidays, I've got three possible ship dates I could make with a maximum of 8 weeks moving time and a minimum of 2 weeks. Really fun stuff.
The problems I have:
- I live in a pretty rural area where BAH rates haven't been keeping up with the cost of living at all
- I have a wife who's going to be having a baby on the left coast while I'm in IFS and possibly in API
- I've got a house that I can afford comfortably on my income and my wife's but will be extremely tight once she moves to FL with me and stops working
- The house is full of my stuff but the wife needs to move away to have the baby in another city
- The property managers in my town are terrible
The solutions I'd like to see:
- Move my wife to a more populated city close to her parents and rate the higher BAH at that locality
- Take annual or emergency leave and hope that I time it right for the baby's arrival
- Rent the house out but possibly without the employment of one of the several questionable property managers - no idea how to do this
Solutions I need help with:
- What do I do with all my stuff? I've got a house and a storage unit full of crap that I need to store until we PCS to wherever
- How can I support my wife while I'm on the other side of the country?
- How can I prepare our family to be more robust (legally, financially, and emotionally) and handle the turbulence well?