Life lesson, kid. What comes easily, you value cheaply. What you have to fight to earn, you value above all else. I'm proud of both sets of gold wings that I earned.
Fight to fly, fly to fight, fight to win. Doesn't sound easy, does it? Don't want to do that? Then plan to fly a desk, because it means that a whole lot of aspiring aviators just as talented as you, or more so, will beat you out when it counts. Because they want it more. I don't think you have a clue what you're talking about getting into. That said, you're only a high school senior. So that's not entirely your fault, especially if you can buck up and learn. You're just young.
Want to fly for the military? First, get a thick skin and learn to accept blunt criticism. Consider this step one in that process. Second, stop asking for the easy way. Take a gut check and ask yourself whether this is truly your passion, and how much you are willing to sacrifice to earn it. You will sacrifice a hell of a lot in any service. Then come back, answer as many questions as you can using the search function (individual initiative is a minimum requirement in this job), and then get back to us.
Want the easy road? Waste your youth not working hard at work worth doing.