Hey there,
Good post question. I hope I can help you out. I graduated from Intermediate last November, and I'm earning my wings this week. That isn't typical. If you choose the E-2, don't expect that long of a delay. I had 4 months off between intermediate and starting the RAG. Anyway, here's a simplified flow of the training.
-Typically, 7-8 months for winging, although the pace is picking up
-The first 4-5 months is systems, systems, systems. You've got to understand the parts before you understand the plane.
-After that, you move into more of a tactical approach, controlling 14's, 18's ,etc (in the simulator, of course).
-You wing
-You have more training, tactics and systems, for about 4 months.
-You then go out to the fleet, and eventually rule the world
Much time is spent in the simulator.
People are much more laid back
The E-2 community is a great one. Chill, but extremely knowledgable. It bothers me how bad of a rap this platform receives in P-cola. As for later in your career, you are the person that people look to for info. Plus, it is staying around for a long time! If you go strike, prepare for a transition (or maybe not getting picked up for one). Hawkeyes, Hornets, and Helos will be what you see on the deck soon.
Good luck with your choice. Any q's let me know.
Also,
Go talk to an E-2 guy who's down there. They'll be happy to hook you up with answers to any questions you might have.