You are misinterpreting it. The fact that your spouse goes back and forth to her job or even moves back to your old residence on your own dime has nothing to do with the move. Remember that the moving of Household Goods is separate from the PCS paperwork. Just count it out, the money to move your stuff is spent and not related to this transaction.
If you move in with a buddy in Pensacola and then move out and reside in the Q then there is no problem. Where the problem would come, is if you try to collect for 10 days in the Q TLA on the front end and never move out, which would of course show you never resided at your buddies place. Residing at the Q would be more expensive than living out on town anyway. So technically, you would have two residences and your spouse would transit. There are a millions ways to legally do this.