KimberlyD
Registered User
Another thing I forgot to mention (you'll find that I'm more for the wives than the SM, after all the wives are going through a change too!) is the Junior Officer Spouse classes. I know that they offer then in San Diego, Norfolk & Jax so if you're near any of those, make sure your wife attends these classes (contact your local FFSC to see if they have them in your area). They're different every single time so it's important to attend each one, they're usually held twice a year & as an OC, your wife is eligible to attend these classes. They'll tell her all sorts of useless information (how to arrange flowers) but also some useful information (how the new surge program works up for a deployment). There'll be other info that she'll need to know to just fit in when you get your commission (like wetting downs, hail & farewells, what to wear depending upon what uniform you're wearing). All sorts of stuff. Also, there's a party at the end of NSI, the night before graduation usually, strictly cocktail attire, below the knee, & no tattoos showing (hopefully she doesn't have any but just in case). I recall quite a few wives being told that their tattoos were inappropriate & to cover them in the future.