Please take a moment and update your account profile. If you have an updated account profile with basic information on why you are on Air Warriors it will help other people respond to your posts. How do you update your profile you ask?
If you have a child, only one gets BAH WITH while other gets BAH WITHOUT. Obviously, higher rank person should claim the depedency for BAH purposes.. (ie LTJG will make more BAH at the with rate than an ENS would...)